Wat Do I Do
Well its been almost years since i talked to my ex an she just sarted talkin with me an it brought back so many memories an sheis ayin she wants to get back with me an idk how to deal with it. i have so many mixed emotions i want to be with her then i dont , i want to see her but i dont . But i know i will just end up gettin hurt like the last time after a yr an a half of datin an i dont know wat to do can i get some suggestions until then i listen to Trapt
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Permalink Reply by Janice on -
It looks like this might be a difficult decision for you. It must be hard to think back when you’ve spent so much time apart. I have a question for you. You say if you do get back together it will end with you getting hurt again, so why would you put yourself through that a second time? You don’t deserve it. If you’re so unsure it’s probably not meant to be. Remind yourself the reasons it didn’t work out in the first place. Dig deep and ask yourself, are you both ready to commit and develop a relationship again? How will things be different than before? Are you ready to put your heart on the line again?
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Permalink Reply by Wyatt Hastings on -
you know youre right an i really appreciate the advise its best for me not to get involved gaun an just be friends but Thx it has made some much stuff more clear to think about wat i need to do. Thx again
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Permalink Reply by Renee on -
yeh i had the same thing happen to me , it was about 9 or 10 month after me n my ex broke up, and then he got in contact with me again, and we started talking,ends up that he still loved me after all that time.i told him it would never be the same again and i dont want to be in a relationship with him, he understood it, and he knows were i stand.Make sure you stick by what you say and also make sure she knows were you stand.but just beware that thoes feels have the ability to come back again so dont get to attached,im in that boat at he momment.so if you no for sure u only want to be friends,make sure you stick by it.
good luck!
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Permalink Reply by Candice on -
it depends on how strong you are and how much you really care about this chick because getting back together with her is certainly a big risk you would be taking. personally, i'd advise against it, but only you know what you feel inside and what your instincts are telling you, so no one can really tell you what to do, do what feels right to you.
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Permalink Reply by Ashley Howard on -
ok... the first thing you have to think about is yourself... is this best for you? if there is any doubt in your mind that you are gonna get hurt again, you should just stay away from it... im thinking you dont deserve to be hurt, so just think about that... on top of that, ask yourself why is she doing this???? there is obviously a reason she wants to get back with you... think about whether or not this is just a rebound for her... has she broken up with someone recently???... im not saying i am great in this department but i know that its important for you to put yourself first and do this for you!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Johnathon on -
It's all about taking chances. It's the game of life and if she really wants to get back then go for it. If you really have strong feelings, don't hurt yourself by avoiding. It'll feel really awkward and you'll probably regret it by not taking the chance in the first place.
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Permalink Reply by Korleen on -
I say don't do it except it could be a second chance at happiness and love and only you truly know if your willing to step back in the line of fire. Sometimes pain is the only way we learn and losing something and getting it back makes us appreciate things more. I just hate to see anyone hurting but you already know the answer you just have to figure it out.....
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Permalink Reply by Wyatt Hastings on
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yeh well after about 2 weeks of discussion we decided its better to be friends an after all that it feels alot better knowin we arent gonna do it all over again
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Permalink Reply by Jeniffer536 on -
DON'T DO IT!!! SERIOUSLY!!!!
Nothing good will come of it.
In the back of your mind you will always be wondering and on guard
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Permalink Reply by Ken Hrycuk on -
Hey Wyatt when my ex gal started to cheat on me. she said it was over. Now i got a new gal and know i'm happy.
so I've got a new idea if u start see another gal. (example). I think it wont work thats what my Older brother Mathew.
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