Only Through The Pain

I haven't posted anything on OTTP in quite some time now, so this is an attempt at getting the site back to what it used to be: a place where people could talk about intense topics that they wouldn't usually bring up in normal conversation; a place where people who barely knew each other became, in a way, a tight-knit group of friends because we all helped each other through things we didn't feel like we could talk about with our friends in person; a place where we all felt close to and in touch with one of our favorite bands, to the point where we could bear our souls and know that they (and the other members of the site) would take us in without judgment and give us tough love, a kick in the ass, encouragement, or whatever we needed.

How about a little appreciation for the good things in life? Instead of being depressed because you hate your job, be grateful that you have a job in a struggling economy. Rather than being angry because your parents/significant other/friends are behaving in a way that is not to your liking, be glad that you have those people in your life. Realize that in spite of your struggling relationship, job, finances, or whatever that you are still young, intelligent, creative, compassionate, or just ALIVE! People tend to spend too much time worrying about the next day rather than looking forward to jumping over another hurdle that will make you appreciate what you have and who you are even more. Of course I mean all of this not to devalue any of the hardships that anyone (including myself) has posted on OTTP.com, but to inspire you to keep fighting through all the crap and make it to the other side as a happier, stronger person.

At the risk of sounding a little Thanksgivingy, I'd love to hear what the amazing members of OTTP.com are proud of, grateful for, or just think to be awesome. I'll start: I have from the beginning and always will appreciate the creation of this site, and everyone on it for encouraging me and thousands of others to open up, share things that we have been holding back and have been holding us back, and learn a little about ourselves, each other, and even the members of Trapt. I'd really love to hear from the "OOTTPG's" on this one!

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no moderators.
we've already be down that road trapt dosen't want moderators.

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Yeah, Chris used to be super high-strung when it came to which topic went where. Remember that from like a year ago? He used to reply to topics and then be like "by the way, this should really have been put in 'general talk,' shouldn't it?" Haha. Now Trapt is posting Trapt-related info in Depth Factor instead of Trapt Talk. Makes you wonder if the guys have any involvement with the site at all anymore... Oh well, we still have each other *tear* Haha.

Thanks for the reply, by the way. I'm glad that in spite of all that you've been through, you still find a way to learn something from it all and twist it into something positive.

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one thing i think we can also do since posting to a reply someone made after another person
already replied gives you the "tucked in drop down arrow".such as your reply meant for.
"Man♪y Jo"
should add an @Man♪y Jo or whom ever it is your replied is intended towards.

like this would be
@Juliet
really the only thing useful to take from "twitter"

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I'm sure after reading it, she'd be able to tell that it was meant for her. How dare you criticize my replies! Hahaha just kiddin'. :)

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